Tossing in a little passion is never a bad thing. A man with vision is going to capture the attention of girls and if you are easy going, yet dedicated and work hard to achieve your goals, the girls will come. Think back to the basics where men were the providers and women were the ones raising the children and taking care of the house.
When you show her you are thoughtful and kind, how can she not fall head over heels for you? Too bad so many guys have a tough time understanding how the mind of a girl functions. It sure would be easier if you knew what was in her head! Everyone wants to feel special right? Just give her enough to go on to get her brain working to try and find that special connection with you.
Beautiful women are used to getting attention from the male species. So if you are looking to hook up with a beauty, you need to knock her off balance a little.
One route to do this is to pay attention to other people in your group and not her. When it comes to women, they think first with their hearts. Which means if you want to gain emotional control over a woman, you need to play with her softer side.
This just means give them the opposite of what they are expecting or what they want. This one plays with the mind but the end result is a girl becoming obsessed with you. If you act a certain way all the time, you are predictable and when you change your usual tendencies you will throw her off guard and subconsciously draw her closer. Perhaps you want to try giving her all your attention and then flipping to be somewhat reserved.
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You're in! See you Friday. Follow Thought Catalog. Be her hero. Whenever she is in trouble or worried about something, don't just sit there with her. Acknowledge that you don't have all the answers, and that you may not know exactly what she's going through, but try to help make the situation better for her. Ask her how you can help, but don't insist that she let you.
Be patient with anything she goes through and be supportive. When you can make a difference, do so without hesitation, but also cautiously, as you don't want to hurt her in any way. If she likes you already, go above and beyond the call of duty. Do something that she'd never expect you to do, like cooking her breakfast [2] X Research source and then doing the dishes, and she'll fall even harder for you.
You're showing her what you're made of. If she doesn't like you yet, or you don't know how she feels about it, play it cool. Be calm. If you're the kind of guy who gets sweaty and stutters his words when he's around a girl, then just calm down. Think of her as just your friend who happens to look different.
If you can't calm down, no sweat! Girls think it is adorable when guys trip over themselves. You'll make her laugh in a good way! Don't fly too deep into the friend zone.
Be friendly with her without always being available. Be honest, but not always totally up front. Pay attention to how you look.
Your guy-friends probably didn't care that you walked around in the same clothes you mowed the lawn in, but the girl of your dreams probably won't be very impressed. If you're not yet old enough to shave, don't sweat it. You should be soon. Smell nice and look clean by showering or bathing regularly.
Wear clothes that actually fit. Not your older brother's clothes; not your dad's clothes. Wear your own clothes, and ones that flatter your figure. It doesn't matter how much money you have — every guy needs a good pair of jeans, a fitting t-shirt, a simple but elegant collared shirt, and shoes to fit the occasion. Get in shape. Lose that excess flab if you can and turn it into muscle.
Most girls like guys who have developed muscles that aren't so chiseled they're intimidating. Find an intramural sports league that you're interested in and go for it. You might even be able to impress your lady with your skills. Be charming. You must at least have some kind of charm to appeal to a woman. Most men are charming in a couple different ways, but here are some charming ideas to think about: Be a gentleman.
This means opening doors, paying for a date, keeping your word, etc. Girls love to feel like a gentleman cares about them. Be witty. Girls love guys who are great conversationalists, who can turn anything into a joke. Learn how to elegantly make fun of yourself. Be intelligent. You should do your best to be well-read , informed about current-affairs , and curious. Women like men who are smart but still relatable.
Be reliable. Every girl wants a guy who, at the end of the day, is reliable — dependable not because he has to be, but because he wants to be. Being reliable is all about telling a girl that she has security with you. Try to be the most reliable guy you know. Do what you say you're going to do. If you talk the talk, walk the walk. Girls don't like guys who say they're going to do something and never follow through with it. Be punctual. Even though some girls are late to dates, a girl hates it when she has to wait on a guy.
To her, it says: "I don't care enough about you to be on-time. Have a good reputation. Be the guy that other guys want to vouch for.
You never know whether she, or one of her friends, could ask around about you. Try to be funny : This gives the girl a reason to relax. A person is more responsive and receptive when relaxed.
This is similar to being witty, but with higher importance. She should enjoy your company and not be bored. Don't be too pushy. It's a turnoff when you're always around her and touching her and flirting obnoxiously with her when she is not interested and has never shown any interest at all. Learn to give her the control, even if it's only the illusion of control. If a girl doesn't want to make out, for example, or have sex, don't try to force it out of her. That's not the way to get her obsessed with you.
Instead, listen to her wishes, understand why she has them, and respect them. You'll get more bees with honey than you will with vinegar. Have financial independence. Most women don't care how much you make, or who your parents are, so long as you can provide for them.
That's nice, because most men aren't blessed with wealth. Remember these things about money around women: Women, like men, want to be spoiled some of the time. It doesn't have to be extravagant, but they like to be spoiled. Save enough money so that you can spoil her every once in a while. Most women don't like men who flaunt their money. If you have money, don't flaunt it, because you just might scare her away. Don't flirt with other girls too much. A girl might really like you but if she sees you dancing or talking with another girl, that could be a dealbreaker.
Make sure she knows you're interested in only her.
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