I think the media exaggerates it A LOT. Some people also go out of their way to be mean to unattractive people. I dont feel as beautiful even when Im dressed at my best and feel my best. Its the one thing I hate about being a woman. How its obligatory to be beautiful.
I also noticed poor beautiful women move ahead btu the ugly ones stay behind. But i need to be contented , God give this look so i must be proud! I want to say that it was very, very hard for me not to judge people based on appearance.
It was difficult for me at least. As i said, it was extremely hard to stop judging people especially girls since i am boy based on their looks. I kind of struggle to do that even today but i am trying and i think i got over it. EDS, I know you feel so bad when people judges you because of appearance.
I wonder if i will ever meet you in real life. You are the first person who i gave oath. Probably the dumbest article I ever read, especially churned out for people with a whole host of insecurities and complexes. You all sound very superficial right now, you know that?
It might affect your self-esteem and confidence though, which drives being unsuccessful. Or something like that , but then that would make me contradict myself. Humans are social animals. Again, we are social creatures, much of our happiness is derived from our social relationships, and our social relationships are determined by how we look. Basically, the name of the game is be born with good genetics or have a difficult time finding a job and had emotional problems usually resulted from social problems and have an over all shitty life.
Which brings me to my next thought, if, as a society, we punish people just for how they are born in how we treat them. When you start judging people like society always does based on their genetics instead of actual behavior, regardless if it involved physical appearance or whatever, how is that person or society honestly any better than the typical racist?
I guess If you want to be a good person just dress nice. Society determines what morality is or how it is defined. It is as simple as this, the reason why all the vein people think that appearance is a big thing is it makes you feel richer than what you really are.
We need to go back to our roots and realize that america is falling apart because all these dense morals and standards that people spend all day thinking about rather than thinking about the true issues around us. This post is informative and true, sadly. Deep down, when you really know someone, you find out true confidence and self esteem.
When someone is attractive they most likely excel socially. Oftentimes, they lack depth. And when it comes to having lasting relationships, this can be a troublesome area. Studies prove that more attractive people are: happier, more financially successful, socially successful, even more intelligent, but it is all in how you define those words on a personal level.
Inner happiness is something entirely undervalued and inapparent to many people. I had a very hard time of it indeed, bullied as a teenager, treated with hostility by random strangers, which has me wondering, were all those people who said that I was good looking lying? Personally i think we give way too much importance to looks, especially when you commented on how physical appearance helps build up a relationship. Just saying. And there are some very beautiful people which are very shy as well and therefore they just do not attract attention and vice versa; less-pretty people with a lot of self-confidence and self-esteem who just attract people and are well liked because of their personality.
If the media stopped publishing barbie-like stereotypes who tell us how we should look like, other values like intelligence or kindness would be given more importance, which they deserve. I have never read such superficial crap trap in all my life. By all means look your best but its not what you look like its what you are as a person that is most important. I constantly hear stories about women who find themselves attracted to super good looking men who turn out to be psychopaths.
My partner is not the most physically beautiful person but he is sincere and kind and I love him for that. And once you are old the good looks fade. Paul Newman famously said he was glad that he was old and his looks were gone so everybody could look beyond his appearance and see him for his acting talents. OMG this post is sooo ridiculous!! WTF seriously!! The people on here who agree with this shallow drivel need to get some self esteem.
End of story. This is not true, looks matter to some extent, but mostly for women. For men, physical appearance is somewhat important, but not that much as personality and grit. Being God fearing, faithful, honest, trustworthy… name them, are the factors everybody should consider, eg.
This is also the dumbest, most superficial bullshit that I have ever read in my life. Biology does to override everything. If we put regular looking people on TV screens, we would not think as highly of beauty. I would rather have a lifelong friend with warts on her face than a swimsuit model. Being beautiful or ugly is a matter of taste. You are beautiful.
MAN UP. The only thing that is ugly is that attitude, my friend. Wish you the best and kick ass. I hope and pray that you will see it another way. And this world is nothing compared to what is to come. This post makes it sounds like when you have good looks, you will be a winner in life without doing anything. No one is in this world is ugly. Just remember what is important is inner beauty. God made you look like that for a reason and everyone has a reason on earth. What the hell is this article?
Live it for you, not someone else. Be whoever you want to be. I agree that being happy with your appearance raises your confidence, but if you're showering yourself with make-up, what does that really say about you? It screams that you're a scared little girl, afraid of what the world will say. The confidence you gain from that is an illusion. It's just a lie. You're really not happy with yourself and that's why you shove make-up on. If you be who you want, you'll find people that accept you for who you are.
Those are your real friends. People that are around you because you have a pretty face and a curvy body aren't your friends. They are after one thing and that's it. The world judges too much. Being fat isn't a bad thing and some people can't help it. They have a disorder. Are those people disgusting?
Can't anyone see that judging someone for that reason is a problem? Once you start living life for you and not someone else, you'll have a better life. If you focus on your health more you will be happier and better.
The opinion of strangers and people I literally don't even speak to are useless to me. I dress for myself and not for others. If I think I look fine, Then that's good enough for me. I don't need anyone else's useless opinions. You must know the real you you don't have to but beauty comes from being yourself and knowing who you really are its not about the makeup and clothing it's just about you your heart and personality It just like don't judge a book by its cover so people don't judge you and how you look.
You shouldn't have to worry about the way you look as long as you have clothes on your back and shoes on your feet. You shouldn't have to buy exensive name brand clothes and shoes like Jordan's , personally I never had a pair of Jordan's in my entire life. By using this site, you agree to our Privacy Policy and our Terms of Use. Google Search. Post Your Opinion. Create New Poll. This is especially true for women who are dealing with the impacts of cancer, and the loss of identity that can come along with that diagnosis.
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